About This Treatment
Between friends, siblings, parents and children — misunderstandings can break hearts. Sheikh Abdul Basit guides you with duas and Islamic wisdom to bring peace back to your relationships.
Common Signs & Symptoms
- Long-time friend turning cold
- Family member angry without clear cause
- Disputes that won't end
- Feeling alone in your family
Our Approach
- 1
Hear your full story confidentially
- 2
Spiritual check for jealousy or eye
- 3
Daily duas for hearts to soften
- 4
Sunnah-based reconciliation advice
Quranic Duas & Wazaif
وَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ
"And He brought their hearts together."
— Surah Al-Anfal 8:63
In-Depth Explanation
Hard feelings between hearts also have a spiritual cause. Sometimes Shaytan throws fitna between hearts.
The Quran says that joining hearts is only the work of Allah — even if you spent everything on earth, you could not join hearts (8:63).
Proof from the Quran
Allah's own words on this matter, with scholarly explanation.
وَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ ۚ لَوْ أَنفَقْتَ مَا فِي الْأَرْضِ جَمِيعًا مَّا أَلَّفْتَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ وَلَٰكِنَّ اللَّهَ أَلَّفَ بَيْنَهُمْ
"And He brought their hearts together. If you spent all that is on the earth, you could not have brought their hearts together — but Allah brought them together."
— Surah Al-Anfal 8:63
إِنَّمَا الْمُؤْمِنُونَ إِخْوَةٌ فَأَصْلِحُوا بَيْنَ أَخَوَيْكُمْ
"The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers."
— Surah Al-Hujurat 49:10
Proof from Authentic Hadith
Narrations from the Prophet ﷺ on this subject.
لَا يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ
"It is not permissible for a Muslim to forsake his brother for more than three days."
— Sahih Al-Bukhari 6077
أَلَا أُخْبِرُكُمْ بِأَفْضَلَ مِنْ دَرَجَةِ الصِّيَامِ وَالصَّلَاةِ وَالصَّدَقَةِ؟ قَالُوا: بَلَى. قَالَ: إِصْلَاحُ ذَاتِ الْبَيْنِ
"Shall I tell you of something better than fasting, prayer and charity? — Reconciling between people."
— Sunan Abu Dawud 4919 — Sahih
Step-by-Step Treatment
- 1
Hearing the full story
Your side is heard without taking sides.
- 2
Spiritual check
Identifying any envy or evil eye.
- 3
Duas for hearts
Constant recitation of Surah Al-Anfal 8:63.
- 4
Sunnah guidance
The Sunnah method of making peace.
Daily Protection Routine
- Daily 'Allahumma allif bayna qulubina'
- Making it a habit to be the first to give salam
- Giving gifts (tahaadu)
- Avoiding bad assumptions about others