About This Treatment
Choosing a life partner is one of the biggest decisions. Sheikh Abdul Basit provides spiritual guidance and istikhara so you can move forward with confidence and peace.
Common Signs & Symptoms
- Confusion about a proposal
- Pressure from family
- Past hurt making you afraid
- Multiple options and unsure which to choose
Our Approach
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Confidential consultation
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Istikhara and spiritual reading
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Quranic duas for righteous spouse
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Practical Islamic advice
Quranic Duas & Wazaif
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ
"Our Lord, grant us from our spouses and children comfort to our eyes."
— Surah Al-Furqan 25:74
In-Depth Explanation
Marriage is half of faith. Choosing the right partner is a decisive step for both religion and worldly life.
The Prophet ﷺ commanded us to choose a spouse based on religion. We guide you in the light of the Quran and the Sunnah.
Proof from the Quran
Allah's own words on this matter, with scholarly explanation.
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy."
— Surah Ar-Rum 30:21
وَأَنكِحُوا الْأَيَامَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ
"And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male and female slaves."
— Surah An-Nur 24:32
Proof from Authentic Hadith
Narrations from the Prophet ﷺ on this subject.
تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ: لِمَالِهَا، وَلِحَسَبِهَا، وَلِجَمَالِهَا، وَلِدِينِهَا، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ
"A woman is married for four things: her wealth, lineage, beauty, and religion. So choose the religious one — may your hands be in the dust (i.e., you will succeed)."
— Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
إِذَا خَطَبَ إِلَيْكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَزَوِّجُوهُ
"If a man whose religion and character please you proposes, then marry him."
— Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1084 — Hasan
Step-by-Step Treatment
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Full consultation
Share your situation, your family situation, and the details of the proposal.
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Istikhara
The Sheikh makes istikhara for you.
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Recitations
Quranic duas and recitations for a good spouse.
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Practical Islamic guidance
Practical advice in light of the Quran and the Sunnah.
Daily Protection Routine
- Daily dua for a righteous family and spouse
- Special dua during Tahajjud
- Guarding your modesty and your religion